“When you have something that dies, or there is a death of a dream, you have grief, and that's part of the human condition and you don't push it away. You honor it and you allow it and you give it plenty of space. At the same moment you keep cultivating that part of you which is behind that, and you do the spiritual cultivation not to push away the grief...you don't push it away, there is pain in life, and you've got to honor your humanity.”--Ram Dass